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Showing posts with label phamily memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label phamily memories. Show all posts

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Noelle's Story/ Our Marriage/Roger and Noelle Together Always


Although I shared Nick as part of our Alphabe Thursday message last week I added Noelle's story here because she and Roger are celebrating fifteen years of marriage today. Noelle, being the good BoJon/Irish girl that she is, held her wedding in our hometown of Pueblo so my mother, who was elderly and had difficulty traveling could sit front and center and see one more of her grand daughters marry. I tell you this story because when my mother met Roger she told Noelle to be nice to him because he was a good man. Let me tell you, BoJon women had a knack about these things. My folks would have celebrated 50 years of marriage August 29, 1985 but dad passed away April 5, 1985. It is  a bittersweet memory.

Noelle and Roger enjoyed a traditional sLOVEnian wedding, a typical BoJon tradition. They were married at St. Joe's Hall in the Grove and we celebrated with wonderful food and dancing. Noelle took a turn way from the traditional BoJon wedding food, fried chicken and spaghetti, instead sharing Mexican (her dad's favorite) and lovely roast beef and ham. They had a beautiful champagne fountain and a cool DJ so we were all able to dance the night away.
Three of dad's sisters, Anna, Mima and Gela. Auntie Mima in the middle was a cook! Wow! IN her heyday she catered more weddings and political events in our hometown than anyone else! She was a dream cook. Dad always said he no longer could eat Italian dishes because when his big sister was betrothed to Uncle Sam Salvo, she practiced on the phamily, and he got tired of eating all those dishes! She perfected them and as a kid I was able to work many of the wedding and dinner events that she catered along with her sister-in-law Frances. I learned at a very young age, 9 or 10 how to set the silverware properly and set a beautiful dinner table. We all pitched and worked hard and auntie would reward us with some cash and of course, all her tasty dishes, especially those darn Italian cookies! No one has ever duplicated her style that I know of. She would share her recipes, it was just that she did not know how to cook for 10 people! She cooked for hundreds. I wish I had photos of those ladies cooking up a storm. My mom and several other aunties always helped her with these events and all of the kids were put to work. I  learned so much during my younger years, especially how to be a hard worker!
Noelle and Roger are a great couple. They have an awesome phamily and that is what it is all about:
Andrew, the photo bomber in the middle of Christal and Alex and their three kids, Jaslin, Alexis and Devin. Roger and Noelle are very blessed.
Andrew, Christal and Colton with baby Jaslin 2003.
Andrew, Tarrah, Roger and Colton. -2014-
The gender reveal party 2015.
Tarrah's dad, Grandpa Scott thought Michael fit perfectly in this pot. This baby is amazing, he is so sweet and quiet. Love this little phamily.

I brought children into this dark world because it needed the light that only a child can bring. ~Liz Armbruster


Every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man. ~Rabindranath Tagore


So please stop by Ms. Jenny and visit the wonderful world of the Letter "O" which I have share din Noelle and roger's story and the letter "N" for Noelle.

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Victor, Colorado

I have always said I wanted to write a post about my mothers cousin Margaret Tekavee who was a Teller County  Judge in the Victor, Colorado. The letter "V" is the perfect timing! Some stories are from my late mothers memory bank and others from an article I read . Here is a story about Victor, Colorado and my mothers cousin "the Judge".
Margaret T. Tekavee was born in Austria in 1912.  She was the oldest of three daughters and when she was three years old her family migrated to Victor, Colorado.  Her father worked as a gold miner. Margaret was not a founding partner of a mega law firm. She never won a famous case. She was not an attorney and she was a high school graduate. Margaret had an incredible personal story and that is what set her apart . Victor was part of the Cripple Creek Mining District.
In the early 1900s Victor, Colorado was a boom town.  with a population of 50,000 and many dance halls,gambling halls and saloons. The Broadmoor Hotel and many other mansions in the north end of Colorado Springs were built with Cripple Creek gold. For Margaret's family, the mine paid her father about $3 a day. Her father Frank was able to purchase a home for his family, which stands today on North Fourth Street.  This is how Margaret grew up. When she was attending the first grade she spoke not one word of English. She was a quick learner and learned quickly from her younger sister and her classmates.  She was considered a good student although quiet and respected by her classmates.
In 1937 Margaret's father passed away and along with her mother they continued to raise the family. Her mother received some government assistance and with  Margaret's income from her job helped support the family. Her mother eventually moved to Cleveland, Ohio to be close to her sister, worked for National Carbine and passed away in the 1960s.
This is the lobby of the Victor Hotel along with other google images of Victor and Cripple Creek, Colorado. I do not have any personal photos of Margaret.  Her road to success began when she graduated from high school in 1932.  In those days employment opportunities for women were scarce. She had no family funds for higher education so she went to work for the Department of Agriculture  as a clerk in Cripple Creek. She rode the stagecoach from Victor everyday. Later she was employed by the Department of Social Services, Welfare Division, which was located in the Teller County Court House.  She was employed there for the next thirty years.
This is the Teller County Courthouse and as a child I do remember taking a trip to Cripple Creek and Victor and visiting my mothers cousin here. Margaret never married but my mother told she that she had a special friend, someone named Ben and he went off to WWII and never returned.  During the war she heard of a job opening and was hired by then Teller County Judge/Justice of Peace, Vince Ryan. Margaret learned a lot from the judge and studied the law day and night. She was a voracious reader.
Lowell Thomas was a resident of Victor and he was a well known  American writer and broadcaster. This is the Lowell Thomas Museum in Victor.
Here is Lowell Thomas boyhood home.
My mothers cousin Margaret was a fair person. Probably because of her lack of formal education, she was able to deal with small town problems easily. She was always honest and fair and was well loved. Margaret was an avid outdoors woman. Her passion was fly fishing. In her earlier years she was also a game hunter, hunting both elk and deer. She hiked Peaks Pike often with her sister Mary, a nurse who resided in Denver. Margaret collected arrowheads and also mine memorabilia.  She had mine certificates and the "gold" buttons that were remains of the gold bars after they were molded. Margaret loved the great outdoors but she was an excellent cook. When her mother was living they would cook holiday dinners, often for many guests. Margaret made her own horseradish. She was a terrible driver and once, on her way to to work the sheriff followed her, lights flashing and sirens blaring. She had been speeding and upon arriving at the courthouse she got out of her car,  saw the sheriff and smiled and waved and said "Good morning." The sheriff didn't have the heart to tell her she was speeding and by the end of the day the story had circulated throughout the courthouse.
Cripple Creek.  is five miles away from Victor which  sits at an elevation of 9,780 feet above sea level.  Victor was founded in 1891 shortly after Winfred Scott Stratton found gold. Battle Mountain which sits just above Victor  had the largest and most prolific mines in the mining district and the town became known as "City of Mines".  The mining district hit its peak in 1900.  Victors fame was overshadowed by Cripple Creek . Many of the best mines in the Cripple Creek mining district were located in Victor.  Stratton's Independence Mine and Mill and the Portland Mine.  Half of Battle Mountain's gold was extracted by the Portland Mine. Heavy weight  boxer William Harrison "Jack " Dempsey was a "mucker" in the Portland Mine.
Judge Tekavee was an honorary member of El Paso County Bar Association. She was a member of St. Victor's-St. Peter's Faith Community. She led the choir. She was named Teller County Woman of the Year in 1986 . She was a director of the Balke Trust, president of the Victor's Women's Club, and a member of the Gold Camp Fishing Club. Her life was the law and she was required to retire at age 72 , serving as Teller County judge for nearly thirty years. She loved the law and breathed it, drank it and read it her entire life! She was once asked if a formally educated attorney had ever tripped her up.  She said it would happen, but only once! Margaret passed away February 25, 1999. She would have wanted to be remembered as a kind , fair and good person. The towns people fondly called her "Our Judge".


Before closing this "V" post and sending you to visit Ms. Jenny and the Alphabe Thursday gang, I wanted to share a final item about Victor, Colorado. This calendar is from 1927 and belonged to my mother. It is from the Victor Lodge No. 403 and the vintage photos are beautiful. I am posting the first two months of the calendar. In February 1927 my mother, who was 13 years old, lost her father Joseph and her older brother Tony in the gold mines. There was a cave in and they never made it out.


John 14:1-4 “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.”


Saturday, April 5, 2014

Happy Belated Birthday Mom! !Missing My Dad

Happy 100th belated birthday to a mother who left me too soon. I was going to post this on her birthday January 4, 2014 but blogger was giving me a fit! She went to spend eternity in heaven and one of these days I am going to join her there. When I lost my mother on November 16, 2001 we had survived the death of my oldest sister Pat. Saw one of my childhood heroes pass away (Dale Evans). Lost a home and a dog all in the same month and watched in horror as 9-11 happened. But losing a mother is a tough one. There really are no words. Nothing that can wipe away the pain. But there is one thing my mother gave me that no one can ever take from me. She taught me to love the Lord. Always make Him first in your life. She taught me how to pray and I will always do that. I will use my faith as a shield to protect from  the evils of the world. All the politically correct garbage I see and deal with daily. All the "tolerance" people so easily accept. Shouldn't tolerance be a two way street? Why do some feel they have rights and the rest of us don't? That's not very tolerate!
Oh goodness, if my mother were here she would tell me to pray! She would remind me that life is tough and we need to pray harder. Always, always, always, using her faith to share with us and reminding us to pray and pray harder and be kind.

Today, 29 years ago, on April 5, 1985 I lost my father. It was Good Friday and I got that call you hate, my sister, barely whispering what happened. Gone. Taken to heaven before I could spend another day with him and say "I love you". My father, as a small boy, standing next to his sister in the First Communion dress. I believe the baby in my grandfathers lap is Joseph and he passed away during the Influenza Epidemic  (1918-1920). I often wonder how my parents survived in their youthful days. Both had lost siblings. Tragically. So much sadness and they relied on their faith and each other to get through it.
A favorite photo of my dad at my sis Mary's wedding. He was a proud father.
My folks with all their kids. A favorite phamily photo.


Mom and Dad with five of their grand daughters.Mary next to grandma, Carrie holding Noelle, Holly and Karla in front of my dad. Such a wonderful memory.
My dad's favorite book in the bible.

My mother's birthday post is late but if she were here she wouldn't mind. She never was one to think of herself first. I miss her. I miss my dad. He was the most humble and amazing man I knew. His faith was strong and his love for my mother stronger still.  They had a wonderful marriage, they were committed to each other and their children. I wish everyone had parents like I did.


Thursday, May 5, 2011

A MOTHERS DAY POST; A STRONG WILLED WOMAN

I have wanted to post all week long. I missed Alphabe Thursday and Vintage Thursday Thingy. But I am going to do a series of Mother's Day posts to show you the women who influenced me the most. This is my late Auntie Ang. She was married to my mom's only surviving brother Uncle Louie. I will post about him later. He would be 103 on Mother's Day this year! Ah phamily memories....
Auntie Ang taught me how to be a strong woman and a very sharp witted women! She married later in life, in her thirties and wore a navy blue suit. She wore red nail polish and red lipstick and always made most of her own clothes. She was a fashionista before that was popular. She always had a purse and shoes to match her outfit and she wore her hair big and beautiful.
She was a marvelous cook and I have many of her hand written recipes with me to this day. Although my Sweets is a much better cook than I am I use her recipes all the time. She made a red velvet cake that was divine!
My life with my favorite aunt was so much fun. She took me shopping and we always went out to eat. She liked to travel and we spent every weekend going to lots of different places.
Her mother passed away and married my paternal great grandfather! So I always loved when she told me stories about them.
She hated bananas. She told me once when she was a young child a fruit truck overturned near her home and the kids all ran into the street and grabbed as many bananas as they could carry! She said she ate so many of them that they made her sick and until the day she passed away she could not stand the sight of a banana!
She disliked the desert and although her niece Elsa and her husband lived in Tucson she always disliked visiting there. She hated cactus and all the landscaping today they call "zero scaping".  She always said "If I wanted a damned cactus I would move to the desert!" I am just like her. I love flowers and I wish I had the green thumb she and my uncle had when it came to raising roses. They had one of the most magical rose gardens I have ever seen. If I close my eyes I can still smell the sweet scent of roses filling their yard on a hot summer day!
She was a master seamstress and she could crochet too. Once when a high school teacher berated me for being "stupid" and unable to learn the fine art of sewing I went to her house and cried. She said "To heck with that old battleaxe!" Then she promptly helped me design the most magnificent pant suit. It had a peplum styled top and that cute little flounce at the bottom of the hem made me feel so special when I wore it! She helped me sew that outfit and guided my hands every step of the way. She was a very patient woman and had a heart of gold. I wish I still had all those outfits she made me! I never learned to sew myself but that one experience was enough to get me a passing grade because that nun never believed I could have created anything that beautiful by myself.
My aunt was a classy lady. She passed away from breast cancer in 2000 and I will never forget her. She taught me to love a good read although she favored romance novels and I liked the classics just like my uncle Louie. She gave me several pairs of cameo earrings and today I wore a pair and lost one. I am heart sick over it. I had her on my mind all day long and so I decided to start my Mother's Day post with her.
The top photo is 1985 and she is holding my first son Jeremy. He is wearing "Uncles" favorite hat! The second photo is Auntie Ang with me at a phamily reunion in 1970. My mother's cousin had a son who married a Texas cattleman's daughter. They owned a cattle ranch near Westcliff, Colorado and we had just seen their prized  bull who weighed in at over 1,000 lbs. and was estimated to be worth over several hundred thousand dollars! His living quarters and his diet were more impressive than any celebrity and he had lots of the "lady cows" looking to make a match with him! It was a wonderful day and I remember it fondly.
So if she were here with me now I would wish her a beautiful Mother's Day and she would buy me lunch!

"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family." Anthony Brandt

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

MY MOM

Today is the ninth anniversary of the loss of my mother. It is always a difficult day and I never  expect it to get any easier. No photos today as I am at my break for lunch. Just my sweet mom's face in my header as a beautiful young woman and a small girl. She is the smaller girl in the first communion photo.

It is a bittersweet day for me because my mother passed away on the anniversary of her own mother's birth. My maternal grandmother was the very best friend any girl could ever have. I would not trade her for anyone yet she was taken from me and it was also a devastating loss.

So I want to say today that I miss my other abnd grandmother both! They were such wonderful strong women. They survived so much and raised wonderful families in the process,

I just want to say if you still have a mom or grandmother please give them a big hug for me. You never know what you have until it is taken from you.

On a hapier note the day was perfect because we close on our house tomorrow. God is good. He is very good.

"Walk worthy of the Lord."  Colossians 1:10