Wonderful Weddings Part I/ Blue Monday/ Love is...

A few years ago my youngest daughter Hannah gave me this "Beautiful Wishes" Willow Tree figure. I wanted her because they reminded me of my mother. She carried star lily flowers at her wedding to my father. But these reminded me of her just the same. This little figure means the world to me because Hannah chose it for me. It will always remind me of my mom's wedding day.

My parents were married August 29, 1936 in Pueblo, Colorado. Uncle Louie Steblay and Auntie Ann Steblay ( later known as Petgovsek)  were their attendants. At one time I remember seeing my mother's wedding gown and often wonder what happened to it. She had the tiniest waist! Oh My Goodness! They were so beautiful!

Uncle Moon's wedding to Auntie Elsie Glavich. I know that is my dad to the left of his brother and I believe Auntie Gela Kocman Medved on Aunt Elsie's right. I do not know the other two people. If you know them, Mike D., come tell me please! She carried a lovely bouquet too. Goodness weddings were a major affair in our parents day! I am sorry I do not have their wedding date  but would share it if you have it. Thank you.

I love Auntie Ang Steblay for giving this photo to me. I treasure it and keep it close to my heart and my sight!My grandmother Cecilia Kralj and her husband Joseph Steblay. They were married October 10, 1904 . A new beginning for each couple. Joyful!

My dad's younger sister Aunt Steffie (Stephania) and Uncle Art Samples. Goodness, they were a beautiful couple. Her dress was simple yet elegant. Look at that sweet short veil, I think Aunt Steffie was a trendsetter. Uncle Art looked really handsome and sharp in his double breasted  jacket. They were a special couple, always kind and very hard working.  I believe they were attendants in someone elses wedding here. It is hard to miss all these good folks, they were wonderful phamily.

The only sadness in this photo is my favorite Uncle Bear is not in the photo. It was Anthony "Bear" Medved's wedding day to precious Auntie Angela "Gela" Kocman. They were godparents to me and all my siblings. Wonderfully kind people and also so hard working. Uncle Bear was a quiet man, Auntie Gela was a storyteller. Goodness, how fast time flies. Miss these precious people too.

Noelle and tiny Drazah on the princesses fourth birthday.

My mom and Auntie Gela. Weren't they so pretty?

The marriage certificates for our ancestors were so unique and beautiful. I recall my parents certificate had a Scripture quote:

This is from Ephesians 4:26. Although I am currently searching for my Grandparents Kocman marriage photo of which I have a small paper copy. I do know they were married on May 22, 1905. I often wonder what they were all thinking, having traveled to new lands and having to leave any loved ones behind.

Our loved ones set up their homes in Bojontown and also in the Grove. These two areas were filled with many sLOVEnian people.  I am shocked at the video that showed the 1921 Pueblo flood because many of these folks never left the grove. Mr. John Germ and his wife raised their family in the Grove. The owned a business and I believe the building along with their home is still there today. The Grove is also home to the KSKJ Lodge No. 7 hall where many wedding receptions were held. On August 27, 2000 my daughter Noelle and her husband Roger were married there. It is located at 917 E. B Street. I am going to take a road trip to Pueblo and get my own photos. Many of these sites claiming historical significance have zilch about the sLOVEnian or Bojon community.  You can not make a few people look good and call it a community! Politics, aack, I intensely dislike it so much! I tried to find a photo of St. Joe's Hall. I guess I will drive down there and get my own! The photo is my daughter Noelle, my mother Cecilia Kocman and my son-in-law Roger at their wedding at St. Joe's Hall on August 27, 2000.

I will continue my wedding days journey with you tomorrow. But I will try to be more timely. I was so late with my post that should have gone up last night. Yesterday, we went to a birthday party for Drazah. she is the "princess" four year old that lives with my grandson Andrew and his precious Tarrah. She is the daughter of Tarrah's sister. They had a party for her at Clement Park in Littleton yesterday afternoon. The day was perfect as they rented one of the shelters and so we were shielded from the hot sun. The kids had a blast. I will share some photos here:

The birthday girl Drazah turned 4. She had a Frozen party complete with purple princess birthday cake. She had gifts galore and Jayden helped her organize them while she enjoyed opening each and every one.

There were lots of gifts. A lot of them were "Frozen" related.

Balloons were Elsie and the Frozen theme too.

Noelle and Drazah stopping for a quick photo.

On the way home from  the party we saw the Denver skyline.

The skies were blue and then it rained.

When we went to Jeremy and Brittany's house for the MMA fight between Chad Mendes and Conor McGregor the rainbow came across the sky. everyone decided to go to the Electric Cowboy and watch Rebekah dance. Let me just say these two things about the EC, Rebekah is a terrific little dancer but the c/w club "ain't no Silver Saddle. Anyone who grew up in Pueblo would know that Mrs. G ran the Silver Saddle Nightclub on Pueblo Blvd. That was a place to tear up the huge dance floor and doing some country dancing to the likes of songs like "Ghost riders in the Sky: and "The Orange Blossom Special", John Nemick, a fellow Bojon and local Pueblo fire fighter was an awesome c/w dancer. He could win awards for his style and moves. Goodness, another wonderful memory of some terrific times.

I will close this post with a special great grand boy, Michael! He is a sweetheart and such a delightful and beautiful little fellow.

Noelle has a photo of Michael's daddy Andrew when he was just a tiny boy, and he is doing the same "Power to the People" pose.

Until tomorrow  lahko noč and please visit Sally and the Blue Crew and show off your blues.

Blue Monday

I have missed one of my favorite play times for a few weeks. I love Blue Monday but my work place has been blue so I have been stressed and unable to enjoy my few hours of personal time each evening.

Having spent a few days in NYC with part of my phamily I took some fun photos to share here. You need to look for all the blue I captured and than visit Sally and the Blue Crew! Here is a shot of the city from the Staten Island Ferry.

New York City is fun and full of life. My friend Deb, who grew up in Philly gave me some wonderful advice. She said to enjoy the food and the sites and just go have fun! I was excited to get away for a few days with the kids and hubby. Watching Nick run is such a pleasure. He has worked hard to get where he is and getting a solid education in the process has been a real blessing. Although this is a google image, I love the blue you will find at Time Square.

 Lady Liberty looks good bathed in blue skies. This is a google image and here is my shot at sunset. Now hop over to Sally's and share your own blues.

I also hope you share you favorite Love is...here

Although Nick left this morning and is settling in at his school, he will be coming home before we know it! We know the road to Kansas well. So we are studying up on the best route to take and what to do once we get there! Goodness, time flies! Visit Marydon and share your Love is...too! She often posts her Love is.. at MD Middaugh on Face Book!

This precious pooch isn't wearing any blue and he's not a Love is... cartoon but he is so darn cute and his face says it all! I had to share it here. Have a wonderful week!

Love is..../Blue Monday

Most morning my hubby is up and around before I am! So although I set the coffee every evening he starts it, pours it, and brings me my first cup!

Some quotes, colorful in pretty shades of blue, for you and Sally

 A Scripture to share!

Always feeling blessed.

Always wanting to forgive and move on never wanting to relive the past filled with bitterness or resentment. Always be better. Enjoy the week and Happy Blue Monday to all!

Love is.../Blue Monday

Laugh Out Loud! This is usually not our style ! We constantly have things to do! Life moves so quickly and we try to catch up with it! Late in the evening you might find us like this! Tomorrow we are taking a day off so maybe, just maybe, we will look like this! Sigh!

I am going to host a tea party in August. When I do  I will wear my blue hat! It is similar to this one but a different shade of blue with a lovely bow on it!

I like to buy my hats from the Berkley Hat Co. in Berkley, California.

Please visit Marydon and share your Love is...with us. Then give Sally a reason to be blue Monday! I hope you will visit all the blues too!

Love is.../Blue Monday

We live in such troubled times and although we all deserve some private time to collect ourselves , today so many have their "me" time and reject their marriage time. I am not trying to anger anyone or make light of singles but those that are married need to make a stronger commitment. Marriage is so much more than a fancy wedding, all the gifts, the honeymoon. It is a lifetime of trying to maintain a balance. Like making a budget or making sure you have enough money in the bank to cover your expenses we all need to take more time to keep our marriages as the center of our lives. Today I watched my husband with his brother and I thought I am so blessed. He does so much for everyone without complaining. His me time is spent figuring the budget, cooking for the week, doing all sorts of home maintenance. He is a good solid husband and father. This Love is...makes me smile and I hope you visit Marydon and share your favorite Love is...today.

The fourth of July is coming this week! It is a good time to reflect on our country and what it was founded on. I love this vintage image and the blue sky setting the background for the stars and stripes with a red, white and blue theme!

This beautiful blue painting is from zephyrstudioaustin.com and I found it on google images. The blue zinnia makes a pretty conversation piece for your morning cuppa.

I hope you will visit Sally and all the blues! Have a blue ti  ful Monday!

Blue Monday? Love is....

I like this blue quote. It is a perfect fit for Sally and the Blue Crew!

This one is funny and would be good for the worker who prefers absolutely solitude! Plus it is blue too!

When we got married in 1984 bank and savings and loan companies often gave you gifts for opening a new account. My mom got a brand new iron and gave it to me for a wedding gift! I drafted a clause into my wedding vows, no ironing for me ever! LOL!
Please visit Marydon and show us your favorite Love is...

A Pretty Blue Tea Mug

I want to tell you a little story about my pretty blue and white tea mug. My sweet swap buddy  Marilyn who lives right up the road from me gave this to me in the Secret Santa Soiree that  Suzanne hosted this past December 2011. I have been using this tea mug lately and it really gives me comfort. Having lost my sweet boy Boots one week ago this past Thursday I find that a steaming cup of hot tea comforts my soul and calms my spirit. I think about what charming friends I have discovered at this blog and how much each and everyone means to me. I have a little poem to share here today:

Come, my friend,
and join me
for a cup of tea.
Let's just sit a spell:
enjoy each other's company.
If life's great success
has come your way,
we'll share the news
and celebrate the day!
But, if perchance, some grief
 has knocked upon your door,
I'll sit silently and listen,
 nothing more.
Come join Blue Monday and what blue you can share today! 


"Rejoice with them that do rejoice,
and weep with them that weep,
Romans 12:15










 

I AM BLUE: BUT ALWAYS LOVE YOU!

I know you may tire of my stories of Boots but that kitty was such a dear friend to me. I am going to receive his ashes and bury some in n my yard. We have to work on the yard and what a tribute I can make to him. I am looking for someone to help me design a grave marker. The ones I am finding are absolutely unaffordable!
I will surround this final resting place with lovely flowers. How about these:

Pretty purple and blue columbines. Just a perfect mix for Blue Monday

A pretty blue bouquet for my friend. I know he would have loved to stop and smell these.

 A peace rose for a peaceful resting place.

I hope you will join Marydon and Sally and show off your Love is.. favorites along with your favorite blues.

“The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief. But the pain of grief is only a shadow when compared with the pain of never risking love.”

(Hilary Stanton Zunin)

Thank you for indulging me with my tremendous loss of Boots.

QUILT ALERT

I am starting off this week loopey! I have had a terribly stressful day at work and am working through a terrific migraine with sinus/allergy added to it! I missed linking to Blue Monday with Sally but wanted to share some sad news and a pretty blue quilt square.

I am posting a quick update because I mentioned 4 year old Shannon who is dying from brain cancer. She was at Stanford Medical in California and was recently moved to hospice. I know time is running out very quickly but the family would like a quilt and many expressed an interest in helping out. If anyone wants to contact me via e mail please do so quickly.

I am sorry I have not personally addressed each request but I have been in a state of chaos with an unhealthy work environment and my e mail is not organized. I do not have time to clean it up before it fills up again!

Please let me know how quickly we could get this together and get it to the family.

Thank you each and everyone for your kindnesses.

 ²² But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, ²³gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

 ¹² So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and ^[a]patience; Col 3:12

Thank you to google images for providing this beautiful quilt square to share.

I received a wonderful e mail from another blogger who offered to help with the quilt. If someone can tell me how many squares or fabric or what other supplies we need we can get started on this quickly.
I am afraid Shannon may pass away before we complete the project but the family can have a beautiful memory/rememberance quilt and know how many people were involved in this. Those praying thank you, thank you, thank you so much! The power of prayer is amazing and even giving this family a little peace and calmness would be a blessing!


I appreciate each and everyone and the email from a blogger who wanted to make a quilt square for Shannon was lost! :( If you read this please contact me and please everyone spread the word!

Please visit Suzanne so anyone wishing to donate squares and fabric and such may send them to her. Thanks to everyone. Many blessings to all of you!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN, A CROSS COUNTRY BITTERSWEET END,MORE BLUE

Nick at his painful finish of the CHSA Cross Country State Championship 2011. His running shoes are blue and orange!

As a life long Denver Bronco fan here is a fan fave Champ Bailey. I thought it was a nice break from QB sensation Tim Tebow and his now famous "T bow"!

The Denver Bronco mascot. Did you know that Bucky, the beautiful white horse that graces our stadium was designed from "Trigger" the famous horse that Roy Rogers rode in all his western movies and T.V. show?

Some Bronco hair for the ultimate Bronco fan!

A blue fairy image for you! Hope it is not snowing where she is trick or treating!

A haunting image in blue!

A patch of pretty blue pumpkins!
Enjoy your blue day and if you are heading out for some tricks and treats please be safe!
Q. What do goblins and ghosts drink when they are hot and thirsty on Halloween?
A. Ghoul Aid!

Q. Why did the ghost go into the bar?
A. For the boos!

Q. WHy did the game warden arrest the ghost?
A. He didn't have a haunting license!

Q. why didn't the skeleton dance at the party?
A. He didn't have any body to dance with!

Q. Where does Count Dracula usually eat his lunch?
A. At the casketeria!

If I don't stop now I never will! Ha Ha Ha! Go visit Sally and show her your blue today!